What if?

Why is it so difficult for us to express what we feel? What stops us? what the other people are going to say or what they are going to think? What sometimes happens is that you want to say something when you have that person right in front of you and you freeze up and can’t say anything ?or you mess up? Its funny but its real. I have lots of stories relating to this situation that confirms this. That’s when you realize that you are into that person, but what happens when that person is not available or is just not for you? There are numerous of stories of people who can’t be together for different reasons. Its seen in soap operas, but this can happen in the real life too. The only thing I can recommend is to be honest and vulnerable, because that’s what makes us human. Say everything without worrying what’s going to happen next, get it off your chest, and await the results. I can’t guarantee that you will get the expected results, but I do assure that you will feel better. You never know what the other person is thinking until you say what you need to. Its like how one of my friends says, Better an “oops”, then a “what if”. Stop overthinking and just do it. 

Enjoy life and be happy because when you are happy ,everybody surrounding you will be too :)