I would say guys prefer text because it makes it easier to avoid talking to someone when we don’t feel like it. Speaking for myself, there have been times when I’ve bailed on responding to a text simply because I’m busy with something else. But that is not an excuse to call or text back to the person you really like.
Girls there may be a lot of reason why guys isn't texting or calling you back.
If a guy isn't texting you back, do not, I repeat, do not freak out and think of 100 possible things he could be doing right now. Don't wonder who he's with, why he doesn't want to answer you, etc. These mind games are anxiety-inducing, and they are a waste of your time.
Girls there may be a lot of reason why guys isn't texting or calling you back.
If a guy isn't texting you back, do not, I repeat, do not freak out and think of 100 possible things he could be doing right now. Don't wonder who he's with, why he doesn't want to answer you, etc. These mind games are anxiety-inducing, and they are a waste of your time.
He's probably not answering you because he fell asleep watching TV with the controller in his hand. Maybe he’s busy at work or It really isn't as serious as you think (most of the time). And if the man is getting it on with someone else and that's the reason he's not answering you, then get out of here. Boy, bye.
Why would you want a man like that? You don't. This is a big world, and sometimes it's hard to see the endless possibilities it offers when you're so wrapped up in a person. I promise you, there will be other men. There are plenty of men out there who are willing to treat you right and answer a damn text every once in a while.
If this is the beginning of a new thing, and you're not sure what the “terms” are, then the same rules apply. Even if you guys are just getting to know each other and hanging out, if he has interest in you, he should be going after you, trust me
Don't play games. They're dumb and will get you nowhere. Don't wait three hours to text him back just because he took three hours to answer you. That is also dumb (very immature) Be straightforward about what you want, and you are more likely to get it than if you beat around the bush.
Don't play games. They're dumb and will get you nowhere. Don't wait three hours to text him back just because he took three hours to answer you. That is also dumb (very immature) Be straightforward about what you want, and you are more likely to get it than if you beat around the bush.
It also drives a man crazy (in a good way) when he has to chase a woman. Men always want what they can't have. The more unavailable you seem, the more desirable you are to them. Ladies, you don't need to be throwing yourself at guys. Don't make it easy for them. Make them work for it, as they should.
Unfortunately for me, I had to learn this by living through it myself. So trust me when I say if a guy wants you, he'll come after you. He's going to be pull out all the stops for you because he wants to show you his best side in hopes that maybe, if he's lucky, he will be good enough for you.
Ladies, everyone deserves to meet a guy who is going to pull out all the stops for her. Don't try to make excuses for him. Trust me, I know. I convinced myself he just wasn't good at texting, wasn't into romantic gestures or just had a really busy lifestyle. But the truth is, if a guy wants something or wants to spend time with someone, he will make time for it in his life regardless of how busy he is.
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