What men want ?



What do men want in a woman? It may seem like a loaded question.

While every guy has his own preferences when it comes to the physical appearance, some like blondes, some like brunettes; some like petite, some like curvy–there are several fundamental qualities that all men crave in a woman. but what happens when we become emotionally involved? When men find an amazing women, but end up leaving them regardless? I ask myself because a lot of women are confused about men. The most common saying is known to be " Women are complicated", but I'm here to say that we aren't the only ones, "Men are complicated too".

Let’s be honest, it’s not that hard to get a man to notice you. Men are sexual by nature and even the “Nice Guys” among us will have a difficult time saying no to a pretty face. Now getting a man to fall in love with you, and never want to leave you and do the unthinkable and forsake all others just to be with you! That is the roller coaster part...

How does a woman manage to captivate a man’s attention while not falling down to the hole of neediness? It can be very complex to explain the range of emotion involved here. Lets talk about what a man want in a women

Be a good girl (at least in public) And yes of course, Men wants a good girl to show up to family dinners and a bad girl on the drive home. It’s kind of funny how many modern relationships fail because the woman is a freak in public but a prude in bed. Believe me, guys want the exact opposite of that! Be nice to his family and then after you get home, break out the whips, cuffs and feathers.

Men need women who are good listeners, because when they start talking about something personal or private they get into a type of flow. Interrupting this flow too much might cause a man to shut down. Instead, when a man is opening up about something, offer him feedback if he asks or seems receptive, but for the most part just let him express himself.
Men don’t need big boobs, a tight little rear end, a flat stomach, long hair, or a lot of makeup to be attracted. But they do need to be turned on by the women they’re with. This doesn’t mean you need to always have your hair done just right and your makeup absolutely perfect but you should care about yourself and take care of your appearance.

I am that kind of the women and even then men still leave me, men are like predators. They chase woman as if we were their prey. Once they capture us and we are loyal, appreciative, respectful, and loving like the ideal perfect woman, but men seem to not like that AT ALL. Once they get "bored" they just disappear. But why do that? That's the million dollar question!

Trust me I totally understand but the only thing I can tell you is right now, you have what a man needs. And you’ll find a man who naturally likes you for who you are and how you are. Don’t worry about trying to fit into some mold of what a man needs. Instead, love yourself and know that when the right person comes along it will feel natural.
Just be you and don't change for nobody !!!




















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