Why Do Men Lie?

Today we will talk a little about this topic, thanking all men who participated. Now I can explain a little why they lie, they have many reasons why they do it and I respect it because women also lie, I can agree with some of their answers although I prefer that they be sincere, and understand that one pain is better than several.

Here are a few potential reasons:

§  They don’t want to hurt your feelings.  If you’ve shown yourself to be a girl who gets upset and dramatic when he tells you the truth, you’re essentially training him to say what you want to hear to keep the peace.  At best, it’s sugarcoating or avoiding a volatile subject.  At worst, it’s a straight up lie to avoid drama. Weak?  Cowardly?  Sure, but men live in the mindset of wins and losses, victories and defeats.

§  They don’t want the drama.  Like I was saying, if not telling the truth is harmless enough and being honest will just cause drama, heartache and grief for both parties, but part of looking at this requires us to be honest about human nature:  Humans (men and women) want to make life easier for ourselves, not harder.  And that’s not the case if there’s…

§  No perceived upside.  If you want the truth and honesty, find a way to reward that behavior, not punish it by putting him through hell.

§  They want to impress you and/or they don’t feel like “enough” without lying or putting up a front.  From one angle, you could almost look at this one as a compliment: the guy is trying to impress you because he doesn’t feel “good enough” to get you on his own.  It’s not a compliment though – it’s not only insecure behavior, but it also doesn’t allow for a real foundation to be built for a relationship.  For a guy to be honest with you, he has to be secure enough in himself to know that you’ll still want him if he’s “real” with you.

§  Some men lie because are JERKS. Sorry I have to say this, because it’s true not all the men are good and no all the man are bad but yes most situations about lies are because they’re are an asshole that is all. And also I’m going to say some women are bitches.

Ladies, you’ve got to understand, men tell you’re exactly what they want and who they are. You just don’t listen. So eventually they have to start lying to you in order to get you to listen.

Now I don’t want to excuse all men for that. Lying, bottom line, is wrong.
Sometimes we are very complicated. We have a wide range of emotions on a daily basis. We love to express our emotions on a daily basis with our friends. We love to recap every single day what happened and have someone truly listen 

Men recap things very, very quickly. And they have a lot of trouble really understanding the way we think also.

But here’s the deal: If we both admire the way the opposite sex thinks, if we both admire the way the opposite sex acts, and if we really listen to one another, our relationships will be far better.

Because. I don’t expect we have to act like a man. They admire what we are as a woman.

.In order to have a truly fulfilling relationship (or even start a healthy relationship) with a great guy, we need to come from a place of strength, confidence, and fulfillment.

Whenever a relationship goes sour (or fails to launch), it’s almost always caused by some tiny fear, doubt, worry or insecurity that grows and festers until you feel overwhelmed by the whole ordeal.

And what happens?  Our fears and worries compel us to confirm whether they’re real or imaginary. We stop enjoying the relationship for what it is and start craving validation and confirmation that it’s “the real deal”.

Men just want us to hear them. So the next time a man tells you something just listen. Listen really carefully to what he says.